Luke 6:32-36 “If you love those who love you, what credit is that to you? Even sinners love those who love them. And if you do good to those who are good to you, what credit is that to you? Even sinners do that. And if you lend to those from whom you expect repayment, what credit is that to you? Even sinners lend to sinners, expecting to be re-payed in full. But love your enemies, do good to them, and lend to them without expecting anything back. Then your reward will be great, and you will be sons of the Most High, because He is kind to the ungrateful and wicked. Be merciful, just as your Father is merciful”.
If you are a man, being romantic is not nearly as hard as you think. You just need to be unique. Sending flowers says I like you, but I haven’t put much effort into this. Everyone sends flowers, chocolate and so on. Instead of going down this road, try to think of something unique or something she has shown an interest in. If the lady in your life makes you watch the movie Sideways [a wine setting] and loves it, you are in like flint if you take her on a winery tour. Whatever you select, just make sure it is unique or something she has an interest in. Again, hold off on the flowers.
Now, what would you do if you were in your thirties and never had these experiences? Just think about it. I bet you can’t imagine life without these life experiences and emotions. That’s okay because it’s part of being human.
People are buying into the where to find a sugar momma movies that say you need a man or woman to have love. A truth that needs discovering is all of that is found in God. In Him we find our purpose and meaning. In Him we are fulfilled, loved and cherished for who are are…and not who we will become one day. You don’t need to have the right job to be loved by Him. You don’t need to have the right body or clothes either. The peace in it all… come as you are.
Bijou Phillips plays the girl and she has a youtube music video. Everybody has a youtube music video these days. Jack is obviously infatuated with her and starts a slow awkward courtship.
Jack goes to support meetings. He seems like a nice guy who is sincere and likeable but we don’t know very much more about him so far. He meets a movie star at a support meeting and tries to make small talk but gets nowhere. He’s not a big shot. He’s a schlub who lives in a dreary LA walk apartment. But he’s smart and still has his dreams. Whatever knocked him down won’t get him down forever.
Any man will consider himself incredibly fortunate to have found a beautiful woman that is intelligent, confident, and compassionate. How lucky he is to be able to spend time with a partner that enriches all aspects of his life. Any woman that instills these feelings in her man will certainly earn his love in no time.